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TalentSmart EQ Appraisal

The EQ Appraisal scores four skills split two ways - awareness versus management, self versus others - so you can see whether the gap is noticing emotion or doing something useful with it.

Two axes cross to form four boxes, sorting each EQ skill by self or other, and by noticing or acting on it.

Self-Awareness Social Awareness Self-Management Relationship Management Self to Others → Regulation to Recognition → Self Others Regulation Recognition
The four EQ skills, by self versus others and recognition versus regulation.

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How to run it

  1. Complete the TalentSmart EQ Appraisal online.
  2. Review scores across Self-Awareness, Self-Management, Social Awareness, Relationship Management.
  3. Debrief the overall score against the norm group with a coach.
  4. Identify the one skill that, improved, would carry the most leadership weight.
  5. Assign specific practices to build that one skill, not all four at once.

A worked example

Situation. Milica Jovanović managed a branch of Dunav Bank in Belgrade, Serbia, and her 360 feedback kept using the word 'unpredictable' without explaining why.

Applied. Her EQ Appraisal scored high on Self-Awareness and Social Awareness but low on Self-Management - she noticed her own irritation and read the room accurately, and still reacted before processing either.

Result. She built one practice around the gap: a short pause before responding in tense meetings. Colleagues stopped using the word 'unpredictable' within a quarter.

Self-Awareness Self-Management Self to Others → Regulation to Recognition → Low High Low High
Ingrid scored high on Self-Awareness, low on Self-Management - the real gap.

The catch

A single online appraisal can be gamed by whoever wants to look good, consciously or not, and self-report EQ correlates only loosely with how others actually experience someone. It treats the four skills as separable when in practice Self-Management under real pressure looks nothing like Self-Management in a calm debrief. Norms shift by culture and role, so the comparison group matters more than the headline score.

Noticing the emotion and managing it are different skills - a high Self-Awareness score can hide a Self-Management problem completely.

Origin: Travis Bradberry & Jean Greaves / TalentSmart